I moved to Barcelona as a single woman. I don't need apps to find matches, and I haven't paid for a single date.

danielle posing in front of la sagrada familia
I moved from the UK to Spain, and dating abroad is quite different.
  • In January, I moved from Scotland to Spain to start the new year in a new place.
  • Barcelona is a fun-loving, vibrant city, and I've had a fun time d...

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    Dating in Barcelona: A World of Difference from the UK

    danielle posing in front of la sagrada familia
    I moved from the UK to Spain, and dating abroad is quite different.
    • Moving from Scotland to Barcelona, I've experienced a vibrant dating scene that's a departure from the UK.
    • Unlike the reliance on dating apps in the UK, I've encountered a more organic approach to meeting people in Barcelona.
    • First dates here often involve dancing, a welcome change from the traditional options back home.

    Organic Connections: Leaving Dating Apps Behind

    sign outside of a tapas restaurant in Barcelona
    Meeting people at tapas bars is a common occurrence.
    In the UK, dating apps seemed like the only way to find potential matches. However, in Barcelona, I've found that simply going out for tapas or visiting local wine bars leads to engaging conversations with men who are open to meeting in person.

    Bumble Reigns Supreme in the Dating App Domain

    screenshot of a bumble chat
    Bumble users in Spain have been direct and upfront about their intentions.
    While meeting people organically has been my primary mode of connection, dating apps still play a role in Barcelona. Bumble has proven to be the most popular app here, and users have been refreshingly direct about their goals. This open communication has made it easier to filter through potential matches and focus on connections that align with my interests.

    Salsa and Bachata: A Romantic Twist on Date Night

    In Glasgow, dancing was rarely considered a date option. But in Barcelona, a salsa or bachata night has become a popular choice for a first date. While my initial hesitation stemmed from my limited dance skills, I soon realized that confidence was not expected. Instead, everyone seemed eager to simply enjoy the experience.

    A Shift in Paying Etiquette: Men Bear the Cost

    Unlike the common practice in the UK of splitting the bill on a first date, in Barcelona, I've found that paying for a date is considered a gesture of chivalry. While this may not apply to everyone, it has been a consistent trend in my experiences here.

    Solo Dining: A Sociable Contrast

    Dating can be exhausting, and sometimes, the desire for solitude arises. In the UK, it was common to dine alone, but in Barcelona, dining seems to be a more social activity. As such, I'm often the only individual eating by myself.
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